{
  "id": 2284971,
  "title": "Ausbildung: Minenfeld Berufswahl: Wie Eltern unterstützen ohne zu nerven",
  "url": "https://urgent.news/2026/08/21/ausbildung-minenfeld-berufswahl-wie-eltern-unterstutzen-ohne-zu-nerven",
  "topic": "business",
  "section": "Business",
  "published": "2026-08-21T02:23:04.000Z",
  "source": {
    "name": "Handelsblatt",
    "slug": "handelsblatt",
    "url": "https://www.handelsblatt.com/politik/deutschland/ausbildung-minenfeld-berufswahl-wie-eltern-unterstuetzen-ohne-zu-nerven/100248727.html"
  },
  "original_language": "de",
  "account": "Eltern play various roles when it comes to their children's career choices, from supporters and motivators to potential naysayers. According to Marion Schwarz of the German Association for Child and Youth Psychotherapy, the key is to be a companion and offer practical suggestions without directing the child's path. The approach taken depends on the child's level of orientation towards various professions, their developmental stage, and personal interests.\n\nStarting the conversation about future plans can be facilitated through school programs such as potential analyses or apprenticeships, according to Daliah Karp, a career counselor at the Cologne Employment Agency. The goal is to encourage children to feel heard and understood, but it's crucial not to push them into making a definitive choice about their future careers. Over-involvement can be counterproductive, as children often find it hard to accept parental influence over their career paths.\n\nParents should encourage their children to explore various options, such as apprenticeship opportunities, which are highly valuable during the career exploration phase. However, parents should avoid taking over the practical aspects of the apprenticeship, such as working in their parent's business, staying with relatives, or doing errands at the supermarket. Instead, they should help their children understand that apprenticeships can be beneficial for personal growth and development.\n\nStaying attentive and communicative is essential, as it fosters an environment where children feel comfortable discussing their career aspirations. However, parents should refrain from providing too much information, as it may lead to disengagement. Instead, they should empower their children to seek information independently and utilize resources like school career counseling services.\n\nParents should also be mindful of their own expectations and avoid placing undue pressure on their children to achieve certain academic milestones or secure a specific job post-apprenticeship. It's important to remember that failure can be a valuable learning experience, and allowing children the freedom to make mistakes is crucial for their personal growth.\n\nIn cases where children are completely uncertain about their career paths, potential analyses offered by the Employment Agency can provide a starting point. These analyses help young people identify their strengths and weaknesses, even if they are unsure about what they don't want to do. Moreover, when no apparent direction emerges, alternatives such as voluntary social service or work and travel experiences can be considered to alleviate pressure and provide a fresh perspective.",
  "summary": "Eltern stehen oft zwischen Einmischen und Loslassen, wenn es um die Berufswahl ihrer Kinder geht. Experten raten: Begleiten statt bestimmen. So geht’s.",
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  "editors_take": null,
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  "coverage": {
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  "disclaimer": "Summaries, key points and the editor’s take are written by software from other outlets’ reporting and may contain errors — always check the linked original."
}