{
  "id": 19278780,
  "title": "Social comparison: What helps against frustration when life dreams remain unfulfilled?",
  "url": "https://urgent.news/2026/11/10/sozialer-vergleich-was-hilft-gegen-frust-wenn-lebenstraume-unerfullt",
  "topic": "business",
  "section": "Business",
  "published": "2026-11-10T03:05:06.000Z",
  "source": {
    "name": "Handelsblatt",
    "slug": "handelsblatt",
    "url": "https://www.handelsblatt.com/technik/medizin/sozialer-vergleich-was-hilft-gegen-frust-wenn-lebenstraeume-unerfuellt-bleiben/100268592.html"
  },
  "original_language": "de",
  "account": "Many cherished life aspirations often remain unfulfilled, such as owning a home, having a thriving career, or raising a large family. When faced with envy or bitterness, comparing oneself to others can lead to negative emotions. Dr. Eckehard Pioch, a psychoanalyst, explains that envy is a complex mix of fear, anger, and sadness, often accompanied by shame. Psychologist Flora Fassl, who has researched envy at the University of Vienna, notes that envy can arise from material possessions, achievements, skills, or even social status. While envy is generally a normal human feeling, it can turn destructive if it leads to resentment or bitterness. Constructive envy can motivate individuals to strive towards their goals, while destructive envy results in feelings of inadequacy and can trigger aggression. The presence of envy tends to be strongest among people who are similar to us, like those of the same gender or age group. Social media exacerbates this issue by constantly exposing us to idealized versions of others' lives. To mitigate envy, frustration, and bitterness, experts recommend reducing social comparison, focusing on what one already has, openly discussing envy with others, and questioning the importance of specific desires. Acknowledging disappointment instead of suppressing envy, reflecting on the underlying needs of a unfulfilled dream, and appreciating one's achievements can also help. If envy becomes chronic, persists in negatively impacting one's life, and leads to depression or eating disorders, seeking professional help is advised.",
  "summary": "The younger sister has built a house, the best friend has landed a dream job: When others achieve what one desires oneself, envy can tip into bitterness. Is there a way out of this?",
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  "disclaimer": "Summaries, key points and the editor’s take are written by software from other outlets’ reporting and may contain errors — always check the linked original."
}