{
  "id": 17760572,
  "title": "The biggest mistake people make when trying to persuade others",
  "url": "https://urgent.news/2026/11/02/the-biggest-mistake-people-make-when-trying-to-persuade-others",
  "topic": "business",
  "section": "Business",
  "published": "2026-11-02T06:00:00.000Z",
  "source": {
    "name": "Fast Company",
    "slug": "fast-company",
    "url": "https://www.fastcompany.com/91626866/the-biggest-mistake-people-make-when-trying-to-persuade-others"
  },
  "original_language": "en",
  "account": "People often make a critical error when attempting to persuade others, due to a cognitive phenomenon known as the \"curse of knowledge.\" This trap, extensively studied by behavioral economics and neuroscience, alters an individual's perception of what others experience. The curse of knowledge becomes particularly evident when a well-informed expert, deeply convinced of their proposed solution, presents it to decision-makers who are encountering it for the first time. The presenter cannot accurately envision how their proposal appears to the uninitiated, leading to baffling situations where clear, logical arguments are met with resistance.\n\nThis phenomenon is exacerbated by the stakeholder's commitment to the presented solution, often due to pride of ownership, which blinds them to the gap between their knowledge and the listener's. Rather than viewing persuasion as a solution-centric activity, it should begin with problem definition. This approach, though more challenging, leads to meaningful collaborations and avoids the pitfalls of premature solution advocacy. Instead, persuasive efforts should be curiosity-driven, starting with questions rather than answers, and focusing on understanding rather than asserting one's expertise.\n\nTo overcome the curse of knowledge, leaders must adopt a collaborative approach, engaging a wide range of stakeholders early in the process. This discovery phase involves asking probing questions to gain a deep understanding of the problem from multiple perspectives. By doing so, they avoid wasting persuasive capital on arguments that are unlikely to resonate. The ultimate goal is to craft a solution that is enthusiastically supported and implemented, highlighting the paradox in persuasion: understanding the problem fully is the most effective way to change someone's mind.",
  "summary": "Here’s the bad news: The deeper your understanding of an issue and the stronger your conviction about the solution, the worse you often become at persuasion. It’s due to a cognitive trap that the fields of behavioral economics and neuroscience have spent decades documenting: the curse of knowledge . In other words, your knowledge has fundamentally altered your perception of what you believe…",
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  "disclaimer": "Summaries, key points and the editor’s take are written by software from other outlets’ reporting and may contain errors — always check the linked original."
}