{
  "id": 1402618,
  "title": "Sex: What can I do if I simply can't come?",
  "url": "https://urgent.news/2026/08/17/sexualitat-was-kann-ich-tun-wenn-ich-einfach-nicht-zum-orgasmus-komme",
  "topic": "health",
  "section": "Health & Medicine",
  "published": "2026-08-17T02:29:04.000Z",
  "source": {
    "name": "Handelsblatt",
    "slug": "handelsblatt",
    "url": "https://www.handelsblatt.com/technik/medizin/sexualitaet-was-kann-ich-tun-wenn-ich-einfach-nicht-zum-orgasmus-komme/100247631.html"
  },
  "original_language": "de",
  "account": "Many people experience difficulties reaching orgasm, and this can be a normal part of life. According to Ann-Marlene Henning, a sex therapist from Flensburg, communication and self-awareness are key to developing a fulfilling sex life. Henning advises couples to discuss their needs and desires in a calm and relaxed setting, rather than during sex, and to start with small, everyday conversations. She also recommends the \"stopp-trick\" to increase physical awareness and arousal, and notes that professional help is available from sex therapists, couple therapists, or medical professionals if needed. Guter Sex does not necessarily mean having an orgasm every time.",
  "summary": "Why open conversations about sex are crucial - and how small exercises can bring more pleasure. Alone and together.",
  "key_points": [
    "Many struggle to reach orgasm during sex, a common issue.",
    "Open communication is key, despite potential shame.",
    "Practical tips include the stop trick and solo sex awareness."
  ],
  "editors_take": "Openly discussing intimacy and self-exploration can help individuals develop a more fulfilling sexuality, and seeking professional help from therapists or doctors can provide solutions for those struggling to reach orgasm.",
  "illustration": null,
  "coverage": {
    "outlets": 1,
    "also_reported_by": []
  },
  "ai_generated": true,
  "disclaimer": "Summaries, key points and the editor’s take are written by software from other outlets’ reporting and may contain errors — always check the linked original."
}